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My mum knows i had sex

My girlfriend and I had sex behind my mums back a few times and then one time she busted us. Firstly, my mum said to me that it’ll happen when it happens. Now she knows that it’s happened, she doesn’t trust me at all and my girlfriend isn’t allowed to come over… I would really like advice. Thanks.

Dylan

August 16, 2012

Replies

Kaila

Posted
20 Aug 2012

Hi Dylan,

I know that at the moment you are having a tough time with your mother and your girlfriend, but the situation isn’t something to be rushed. I know what you mean when you say that your mother does not allow for your girlfriend to come over and that you feel as if she doesn’t trust you, because the same thing happened to me. But, the situation you are in has not only left you feeling like there is nothing left to do, but your mother is confused and worried about her son. It does not necessarily mean that she does not trust you.
Give the whole thing some time and let your mother think everything through, and things may change depending on the relationship you and your mother have.

Good luck.

Kaila.

Aleesha

Posted
22 Aug 2012

Hey Dylan,

I had the same problem. But I guess the reason my mum bugged out so much was because I was 13 at the time. Honestly though, I know that your mum is just looking out for you. She’s clearly just worried about you, she still trusts you. Please trust me on this, your mum will come around soon. And if she doesn’t, the best thing is to approach her yourself and talk to her about it. Communication is vital in a sustainable relationship.
You know that your mother loves you no matter what, you’ll always be her son.

Wishing you all the best,

Aleesha

adam

Posted
23 Aug 2012

go out and have sex

rajee

Posted
24 Aug 2012

why did you do it if you know it will happen

Liz

Posted
27 Aug 2012

Ok for the people that have written comments that you know won’t help, stop that is so unfair sex is something special and he and his girlfriend thought they were ready, it’s not that big of a deal, ok “……..

orienne

Posted
30 Aug 2012

heyy Dylan!

Hey buddy i had the same problem and i’m 14! my Bf! is 19 but my mum trust us now! because she knows Kyle will do anything to keep me safe and wont hurt me and wont let anything happen to me

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